Some Cracking Ideas For New Blog Posts Coming Right Up

I’ve been planning on writing about the following topics recently for a series of posts for this blog. Several points I would like you to know, most here regarding LGBT rights, that I basically haven’t had the strength to say until recently:

• Sexual attraction is based on perceived values of society, but maybe not exclusively, it matters how people smell to you as well.
• Having a job is necessary to continue a relationship after childhood and it can sabotage relationships that don’t have an income because you are forced to have very different roles and this can cause you to not spend as much time together and cause disillusionment for some people in relationships who want to be equals and spend all their time together.
• Couples jobs are a cute idea.
• Notions of different roles each partner has to follow can manifest in an extremely toxic way especially in gay relationships.
• It matters what you choose more than what you feel and commitment is technically more important than sexual compatibility.
• Working together for the same goal or goals, that you can achieve together, brings people together emotionally and forms a strong bond.
• People don’t understand how their insults can hurt, they might not mean them how you think, and sometimes when you are in a bad place, causal above board humour can hurt.
• It’s been about 10 years since gay people have been allowed to marry as equals in this country,
• Make sure marriage framed in a way where you come together more in your lifetime and don’t send each other away for a lifetime though believing too strongly you’re different. This is applicable to any relationship.
• Human minds are so similar that with the same opportunities we can practically all do practically anything someone else’s mind can do with the same resources.
• Gay people can make people happy and support the community by doing what feels right to them.

Also, regarding topics often regarded to be in the same family:

• Transexuals or those who want another sexual identity, while sometimes unrelated to your relationship status or if you are gay, should be equally supported.
• If you are transitioning its best to do it young or to be fully informed of what it means regarding people’s perception and changes made to your body as well.
• It’s important to remember that you simply are a woman if you are a woman, you don’t need a vagina, and you simply are a man if you are a man, you don’t need balls, the most important thing regarding your bits is sexual experience and the most important part of your conversation dynamic is your comfort and self worth.
• You shouldn’t worry if you don’t know what gender you are, at the end of the day male and female are both just identities under being human, you shouldn’t feel pressured to change gender if you are undecided, only if you want to.
• Medical attention and supervision can help massively.

Regarding sex and sexual identity in general there is suspiciously little openly shared information that everyone agrees on, you’re free to chose your own identity, but be kind to yourself and bear in mind that sex should enhance your relationship, not define it. People use a lot of sexual rooted insults, often without thinking, but there are insults (unfortunately) that apply to anyone and everyone, we’re equally vulnerable. Try to use task based insults not sexual ones, because if you only disagree on the task level and not the personal level you can rescue any relationship or friendship by learning together. People often want what they don’t have emotionally and as they get it they get more similar to those around them, keep it fresh.

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